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Vulnerable in Creativity and Explore your Insecurities

Posted on July 14, 2012 by Lem Usita

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I was at TEDxAFC with my good friends Daniel Araujo and Brent Oglesby.  It was my frist time going to one of these events with friends.  I normally go by myself so it was nice to proces with people that … Continue reading →

Posted in Influence Tagged amazing things, creativity, daniel araujo, explore insecurities, friends, Identity, make a difference, Tedxafc, vulnerable

Twitter Validation

Posted on June 3, 2012 by Lem Usita

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Evidently, there is this Twitter service that you can use that will validate whether a person is following you or some bot is following you.  The bot can’t navigate the validation service I guess.  So this service is suppose to … Continue reading →

Posted in Ideas Tagged followers, friends, Identity, people, popular, twitter, validation

That One Moment

Posted on May 3, 2012 by Lem Usita

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There is That One Moment – that one moment that makes the difference between the thing that’s bringing you down and being able to work through it to get you to the next level. There is That One Moment – … Continue reading →

Posted in Influence Tagged a lifetime, friends, makes a difference, moment, people, Relationships, that one moment, Thoughts

No Friends

Posted on April 29, 2012 by Lem Usita

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So I wrote a post yesterday about The Friends I Eat With, and what I mean by that.   I have friends.  I make friends fairly easily.  It’s part of my personality.  Maybe I’m just not that scary. I saw … Continue reading →

Posted in Ideas Tagged better friends, friends, friends shape identity, Identity, no friends, real friends, shape identity

Friends I Eat With

Posted on April 28, 2012 by Lem Usita

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…….. are the really, really good friends. Have you ever heard of Dunbar’s Number?  Here’s another post about it. Friends that I eat with are friends.  We have all sorts of friends on Facebook and Twitter.  Thousands of friends – … Continue reading →

Posted in Ideas Tagged Dunbar's Number, eat with, Family, food, friends, really really good friends, vacation

Vanity Metrics and Identity

Posted on April 14, 2012 by Lem Usita

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Sometimes we can build our identity on metrics that really don’t matter.  Well, maybe they matter, but they’re only good for your vanity. I was listening to a podcast on marketing and they were talking about the vanity metrics that … Continue reading →

Posted in Ideas Tagged crappy, feel good, followers, friends, Identity, numbers, vanity metrics

Phone Numbers

Posted on March 26, 2012 by Lem Usita

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Phone numbers used to be an identity marker.  Growing up, I knew everyone’s phone number.  I had it all memorized.  I knew all of our numbers.  I knew all of my aunt’s and uncle’s numbers.  I knew phone numbers of … Continue reading →

Posted in Identity Tagged 7 digits, calls, Family, friends, Identity, iphone, memorized, number, phone number, technology, voice number

To Not Care What People Think

Posted on March 18, 2012 by Lem Usita

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……is not an easy thing to do. But just like anything else, the more you do, the better you become at it.  It’s a pretty natural thing to have opinions about others so it’s natural that people might have opinions … Continue reading →

Posted in Ideas Tagged beat up, defend yourself, Fear, friends, listen, negative, people, positive things

Insecure Friends

Posted on March 12, 2012 by Lem Usita

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If you have them, still be a friend.  Just know that if you intimidate them too much, they’ll stab you in the back.  We all have them. Help them to be more secure.  Encourage them if you need to.  They’ll … Continue reading →

Posted in Ideas Tagged attention, encourage, energy, friends, friendship, insecure friends

A Season of Life

Posted on December 14, 2011 by Lem Usita

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There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven.  Ecc 3:1 I had dinner with a friend from college last night.  It was great to catch up and talk about a previous season of life … Continue reading →

Posted in Ideas Tagged a time to be born, college, ecclesiastes 3, friends, season of life

Insights In To You

Posted on September 7, 2011 by Lem Usita

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I am a big fan of friends and even enemies that are able to give Insights In To Me – into who I am.  I am a fan of people that give insight into my life. It’s not like I … Continue reading →

Posted in Identity Tagged enemies, friends, Identity, insight, speak into

One Way Friendships

Posted on August 29, 2011 by Lem Usita

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I have lots of “friends.”  I actually have lots of friends in real life.  It works for my personality.  I do have lots of friends online – hundreds. Inherent in online relationships is this idea of One Way Friendships.  It … Continue reading →

Posted in Ideas Tagged fake life, friends, friendships, one way, online, real life, Relationships

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