Tag: lem usita

  • Douchemuggery

    Douchemuggery

    Douchemuggery = when you bring your own mug into the cafe and restaurant because you’re way to high maintenance to use theirs. This might be one of my identities. #douchemuggery #putyournameonit

  • Skinny Fat

    Skinny Fat

    Yes, that’s a thing. If there was ever an identity that you could put on, this is one of them.  I had never heard of it till about a week ago (just haven’t finished the post).  You can Google it.  Skinny Fat is an identity that someone created to describe…

  • The Home Screen

    The Home Screen

    Everything leaks identity. You know how they say that you can tell a lot about a person by taking a look at their checkbook and calendar – well, that was a saying before smartphones. You don’t need to look at 2 things any longer. Technically, you can simplify things and…

  • How to Find Your True Self – Audio

    How to Find Your True Self – Audio

    I am adding a new feature to some of my old posts.  I don’t know the best way to do this so I am adding the audio commentary and then reposting the blog post at the bottom of it.  Let me know how you like this feature.  I will try…

  • Identity Specialist

    Identity Specialist

    So it’s the name that I chose for the blog.  I would never call myself an Identity Expert because that assumes that I am the expert on identity. I studied it for my doctoral dissertation.  I have done a bunch of reading about it.  I understand a few developmental theories…

  • identitySHOW

    identitySHOW

    a post about a podcast called the identitySHOW – a space to talk about identity and what you think you know about it.

  • Rejuvenate Your Identity

    Rejuvenate Your Identity

    This only works if you know where you’re from.  Well, this idea that I’m about to write anyway. If you want to rejuvenate your identity – find yourself back at home.  There’s just something about it.  I’m not talking about the house your grew up in – although that can…

  • A Podcast and a Relaunch

    A Podcast and a Relaunch

    Do you podcast?  If you do, I want to talk to you.  I want to learn how and start one. I already have this conversation that my friend Jasen Ashdown and I have started.  We record a video of us talking about things that we are processing through and learning.…

  • You’re Not an Expert Just Because You Read Someone’s Opinions

    You’re Not an Expert Just Because You Read Someone’s Opinions

    The truth hurts right? I once had someone call me an expert on identity.  I quickly corrected them and told them that I am a specialist.  I know some things, but I’m definitely no expert.  I might know more than some people, but there are definitely many people that know…

  • Lem from identityspecialist.net

    I am not sure if you’ve ever heard anyone be introduced by them telling you they are from their website.  Maybe it’s just me and the podcasts that I listen to you, but it’s totally the thing these days.  Here are some thoughts: 1. You all need a website to…

  • LL50: Lead Smartly

    LL50: Lead Smartly

    The truly smart leaders know When to Lead. The ones that don’t truly get leadership are constantly leading. They feel like they have to lead all the time. They never stop. They are continually the boss. Consequently, they can be tired because they never rest. It makes them annoying. Do…

  • LL48: The Old Way of Leadership

    LL48: The Old Way of Leadership

    ……..still works. Lots of places today uses the old style of leadership.  They rule like they’re dictators.  It’s leaders that hide in the room and never walk around the place.  They still want to be asked for permission.  Leaders who hoard information and spin like crazy because they don’t think…