Tag: parents
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Your Parent’s Interpersonal Problems
…..are typically passed on to you, or at the very least has shaped you. Whether you know it or not – whether you like it or not – you have been conditioned to deal with their interpersonal problems. I’m not sharing this to pass on the blame to my parents.…
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Where I Come From
It’s been a few weeks since I got back from the Philippines. I am processing through all the stories and the things that I got to see and experience while I was there. I got to spend time in my dad’s hometown. Well, you can’t really call it a town.…
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Mental Model
So I read about Mental Models today. Basically, a mental model is formed early in life and then they stick with us for the rest of our lives. When things happen in our lives, our brains bring up these mental models and bring us back to the experience – the…
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What Informs You Forms You
What informs you forms you. When you are a little kid, your mom and dad were always around. They told y0u what to do and what not to do. They told you stories and they might have even told you that they loved you. Maybe, they might have said something…
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The Father Wound
I heard that phrase yesterday in a conversation. It was being used to describe why a person was the way that they were. It was used in the context of identity formation, but a father wound could definitely shape your sense of who you are. Honestly, it could be a…
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You are Your Parents
I don’t always get the best response when I say that. Some of you – you are your parents. Others of you are nothing like your parents. It’s such a polarizing thing. Some of you are and some of you aren’t. Some of you are glad that you are and…
