This is a great identity formation skill – not so much to help someone else form their identity but mainly to learn to see yourself. I don’t think we teach that, although some people just pick up on it intuitively. … Continue reading
…..is impossible. Mainly because no one fully knows himself. If no one can fully know himself, how can you fully know him. At best, we can have partial knowledge of people. I know, elementary right? But too many times we … Continue reading
I read some tweets today that totally sounded like someone’s inner monologue, and when I asked about it, they affirmed the fact that they do indeed use Twitter to project their inner monologue. It seems like lots of tweets look … Continue reading
What does that mean to you? I use it in class when we are talking about each other and our families. It’s much easier to talk about ourselves when we do so from a values free perspective – talking about … Continue reading
The end of the year is always filled with a review of what has transpired over the year. It also is a time for resolutions; to do lists; and things that you should do differently next year. I always love … Continue reading
What you experience in what ever state you are in is your reality. In your conscious state, all that you experience is real. In your dream state, there are no boundaries. Anything goes. Do what ever you like, and in … Continue reading
I’ve heard of people talk about our state of mind. We understand that concept of our mental state or cognitive capabilities. We use that as a starting point to measure our lives, but I like the ideas of our state … Continue reading
I was typing out a tweet this morning on the good ole iphone. I realize that when I tweet, I throw out all of the rules. I only have 140 characters for each tweet so I throw out some rules … Continue reading
Is it possible to be more private? I mean if we are sharing all the stuff that we’re sharing already, are we going to run out of private things to share? The more we share, the less we have to … Continue reading
….will demonstrate true self. If you really want to see someone’s true self, watch them celebrate. It almost doesn’t matter if it’s a touchdown or getting a job. What they do to celebrate will reveal their true self. Consequently, seeing … Continue reading
You all remember the memorable Nike saying – Just Do It. Well, not everyone can just do it. There are some of you can that can’t do it – well, at least when it comes to regulating your state of … Continue reading
I heard this phrase this morning. It is a description or an identity projection that gives insight into self – well, for the experience junkie anyway. I think that it helps to have those descriptors that give us meaning, direction, … Continue reading
