The Way Family Podcast

I had the opportunity to be a guest on the Way Family Podcast.  It comes out June 20, 2016 and you can find it here.  We talked about #identityformation and the impact that #socialmedia can have on identity.  We also briefly talked about extended adolescence and the way that #millenials are being formed because of […]

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Your Heroes

I have written about how every single experience and relationship in your past has shaped you.  You are the sum total of al of that.  There is not such thing as an insignificant event or experience in your past.  Every relationship leaves a mark. Having a Heroes also has an impact.  Your Heroes represent the […]

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Make Meaning

I recorded a podcast today with my good friend Dr. Lisa Gates.  You can check out the episode next week when it comes out on the identitySHOW.  I can’t wait to listen to it again.  She studies identity and has done a lot of thinking in this area.  I learn so much about identity from […]

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Being Known

I am working through a book on neuroscience and relationships. Read about this concept of how we tend to think of our relationships in terms of how well we know people.  That’s pretty much how I think about my relationships.  I can tell you who I know well, and those that I do not know […]

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That One Moment

There is That One Moment – that one moment that makes the difference between the thing that’s bringing you down and being able to work through it to get you to the next level. There is That One Moment – that one moment where you are lonely – so lonely that you’ve never thought you […]

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Man Damage

I heard this phrase this week.  It stood out to me because I’ve never thought about it before.  Although, it’s titled Man Damage, it could just as well be Woman Damage.  It works both ways. The basic gist has to do with the stuff that we bring into relationships.  A woman will being the wounds […]

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One Way Friendships

I have lots of “friends.”  I actually have lots of friends in real life.  It works for my personality.  I do have lots of friends online – hundreds. Inherent in online relationships is this idea of One Way Friendships.  It has to do with those “friends” that you follow and even care about, but you […]

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