A Journey into Fantasy

I heard this line a few days ago.  It made me think of a few things. First of all, I don’t think of fantasy as something that you have to journey to.  I always think that fantasy is always going to be there.  I don’t think of the journey into fantasy.  It’s like you   […]

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What You Obsess About

Well, if you’ve been reading this blog for a bit – you know what I’m going to say (Right Kahu Dan!). What you obsess about tells me so much about your identity.  If you think about something so much to the point that you obsess about it – that’s your identity.  It’s crazy that it […]

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What Calms You?

What Calms You? Do you even need to be calm? Some of us live such fast-paced lives that we don’t even know that we need to be calm. That place where you are calm is a great place for shaping identity. When you are calm, you can freely think and process identity. When you are […]

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The Identity of Being Right

I have written a post about always being right. Please check out the post just to give you context for this one. Do you consume information to learn the truth or do you consume information to affirm you for being right? It’s a great question. The more you hear that “you are right,” the more […]

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That One Moment

There is That One Moment – that one moment that makes the difference between the thing that’s bringing you down and being able to work through it to get you to the next level. There is That One Moment – that one moment where you are lonely – so lonely that you’ve never thought you […]

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Junk Thoughts

As a good Christian person, I think I have only ever thought about my thoughts in terms of right and wrong thoughts.  I have never thought about my thoughts in terms of quality = valuable thoughts vs. junk thoughts. i think I heard about this idea on a podcast.  Junk thoughts are not great thoughts. […]

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