Did your parents ever tell you this? To be careful who you hang out with because you are or you become the company that you keep.
I was thinking about it, and I tried to list out some of my friends and the company that I keep. There are few college presidents in the mix and a few CEO’s of some pretty good size companies. I have friends with PhDs, and I have friends with AAs. I have friends that go to AA, and friends that have been with AAA for years. I have friends that live in very big homes, and friends that are just big. I have friends that travel all over the world, and I just talked to a friend that just took her 2nd flight – ever.
One thing you could do is take a look at my friend list on Facebook. I have a list of mentors that build into me. I have people that I mentor as well. I like to surround myself with positive people, and its easier to be so when you hang out with them.
I think I understand the socially constructed self, but that’s only one side of the equation. Still, I am my friends.
Who are your friends? What do they say about you? What would they say about you?

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