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There are a ton of ways to say it.  I don’t even know how I’m going to say it, but you know what it’s like to argue with someone that is always right – even when they’re wrong?  Why argue?  I mean, why waste your time arguing with someone that just likes to argue – even if they’re wrong.

This came up in a conversation this weekend.  It ended up with someone losing their job.  That’s never good, but it was all a misunderstanding.  It was also an argument that couldn’t be won.  Arguing with someone that can’t be convinced is a waste of time.  It is not strength to argue from that perspective.  It’s closed minded and selfish.  It’s insecurity.  If you were secure and could handle it, you’d have a conversation about it.  You’d engage the argument with with sound thinking and substantiated claims. It takes skill and patience.  Arguing with an insecure person is the worse.

Your time is precious.  Don’t argue with someone that can’t.