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26.9%

Posted on August 8, 2012 by Lem Usita

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So about a month ago, I wrote a post that I called 28.1%.  That was my BMI – body mass index.  According to the chart that I looked at, it said that at that percentage, I am overweight. About a … Continue reading →

Posted in Influence Tagged bmi, bmi body mass index, body mass index, health, healthy-living, Identity, losing weight, mental-health, normal, overweight, weight-loss

Trapped in a Mindset

Posted on July 2, 2012 by Lem Usita

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I was talking to a friend today about what motivates identities.  Do we take on an identity to try it on?  Do we take on an identity for the image – like the look and feel of an identity?  Or … Continue reading →

Posted in Identity Tagged Identity, Identity formation, mindset, natural, normal, trap, trapped in a mindset

What You Become When You Retaliate

Posted on February 15, 2012 by Lem Usita

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re·tal·i·ate/riˈtalēˌāt/ Verb: Make an attack or assault in return for a similar attack. Repay (an injury or insult) in kind. When you think about identity, you end up thinking about what it is or who it is that you are … Continue reading →

Posted in Influence Tagged attack, become, becoming, ethic, hurt, Ideas, insult, love, mind space, natural, normal, retaliate, retaliation, vicious cycle, you

The Safety of the False Self

Posted on January 29, 2012 by Lem Usita

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The idea of the False Self is fascinating to me.  In many ways, it comes from a very real place so to call it a False Self is a bit deceiving. There is something totally normal about having False Selves. … Continue reading →

Posted in Identity Tagged false self, healthy, Identity, masks, normal, self, true representations

The Push of Normal

Posted on February 13, 2011 by Lem Usita

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I’m still thinking through this idea. The main question is what is normal? It’s different for everyone, but the follow up question for me is – which direction do we push towards? It seems to me that you either push … Continue reading →

Posted in Ideas Tagged average, Fringe, influencer, normal, push, Status Quo

How to be Exceptional

Posted on January 26, 2011 by Lem Usita

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First question: why do you want to be exceptional? To be exceptional you have to be first of all be different somehow from everyone else.   Here are the definitions of exceptional. 1: far beyond what is usual in magnitude … Continue reading →

Posted in Ideas Tagged definition, exception, exceptional, normal

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