I heard that phrase today.  A girl that I was listening to was talking about the guys that she dates and how she is more attracted to guys that have done their emotional work.  It stood out to me.

The first question that I asked was – what does that even mean?  But then she continued to describe how she was attracted to men that have done emotional work because those that do end up being much more confident in who their identity.

So men – if you do your emotional work – and we all have some work to do in that area – the confidence that comes because of that work will shine through.  Emotional work = Confidence.

I can’t hurt – much.