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  • My Tattoo

    I have wanted a tattoo for forever – probably since college.  I remember making a decision thinking that I was going to wait 10 years before I got one. I… Read more

  • The News

    We learn so much from the news.  The news helps us to form opinions and develop our ideas.  The news has rules and they try to substantiate anything that they… Read more

  • A Double Life

    I saw that in a tweet today, and they were referring to having 2 Twitter profiles.  I tweeted back – anyone that has a persona online lives a double life.… Read more

  • A Better Life

    Do you remember what you think during sleep?  Technically, you’re not suppose to.  Hopefully you’re in such a deep state of sleep that you aren’t conscious of your thoughts. Last… Read more

  • Automated Relationships

    Friendships have become a numbers game.  We have automated our friendships so that the app is now managing our relationships.  The app will send you a thank you e mail… Read more

  • The Not-to-Do List

    Have you ever thought about it?  Just last night I was updating my “Tasks” list on Google.  It quickly filled up. But there should be a “Not to Do” list… Read more

  • Searched for “My Heart Hurts”

    I was reading Gary Vaynerchuk’s new book The Thank You Economy last night.  He wrote about engaging people in social media – around ideas that you might be passionate about.… Read more

  • If You Wanna Be Lonely

    …….then always be right. Do you know someone that always needs to be right?  I think I can be like that.  Don’t get me wrong.  I don’t think that being… Read more

  • On Fitting In

    Society isn’t kind to those who don’t fit in.  We ostracize, we call names, we harass.  – Seth Godin in Poke the Box. As soon as I read that, I… Read more

  • Love Comes Later

    Only in a culture that values individualism is romantic love the reason to get married. That was a line from one of my lectures this week on culture.  In many… Read more

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I’m Lem Usita, Ed.D.

This site was my blog for many years that is now the site for the work that I do. Thanks for visiting.

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