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  • How You Prioritize

    Men prioritize physical attractiveness.  Women prioritize status.  I’m watching a documentary on sex appeal – can you tell? It might seem simple, but think about the implications.  Knowing how you… Read more

  • How Good Looking You Are

    Did you know that you have no idea how good looking you are?  Quite literally, none of you think that you’re as good looking as you really are.   Wait… Read more

  • Friends that I’ve Never Met

    I have many friends – good ones.  I have some friends that I have really come to know and respect.  I have talked with then.  I have exchanged emails and… Read more

  • Those that Care – Know

    We all have people that care about us.  It’s great when people care about us, but it’s great to know that those that care about you know first.  You can… Read more

  • Child Education

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  • The Wisdom of Seasons

    I always enjoy talking to people about changes that they want to make in their life.  There is always some need and the urgency to fulfill it.  It’s pretty easy… Read more

  • A Text Relationship

    Yesterday, everything that I watched, read, or listened to had to do with relationships (Valentines Day).  I saved this post for today – but it comes from some of the… Read more

  • Your Facebook Self

    I just read an article that basically says that Facebook blurs the line between our real self and our digital self.  There is no blur.  Your real self is you… Read more

  • The Push of Normal

    I’m still thinking through this idea. The main question is what is normal? It’s different for everyone, but the follow up question for me is – which direction do we… Read more

  • If You’re Frustrated with Facebook…

    …you should get off of Facebook.  If you’re going to complain – complain, but then do something about it.  Get off Facebook.  Don’t start groups using the medium that you’re… Read more

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I’m Lem Usita, Ed.D.

This site was my blog for many years that is now the site for the work that I do. Thanks for visiting.

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