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  • Family Lore

    Do you know your Family Lore?  I know some of it.  I just know the stories that I’ve heard in passing, but I am going to try and record the… Read more

  • When No One’s Looking

      Recently, a friend asked me if I had ever heard the phrase, “Who you are when no one’s looking.”  The idea is that you are your most true self… Read more

  • Expert in Other Worlds

    I heard this line somewhere. I think it was some tv show, and I wrote it down weeks ago.  I’m just getting around to writing it – oddly enough –… Read more

  • Metabolize Your Experience

    I read that phrase this morning and just connected with it somehow. There is a place in your experience that sits in between comfortable and lazy on the one side;… Read more

  • Textually Promiscuous

    I text alot.  I have had friends tell me that I text them more than anyone else that they know, but no matter how much you think I text, there’s… Read more

  • Skinny Fat

    Yes, that’s a thing. If there was ever an identity that you could put on, this is one of them.  I had never heard of it till about a week… Read more

  • Your Internet is not Getting Slower

    ……..you’re becoming more impatient. This blog is about identity – with a focus on “becoming.”  Then there’s this underlying current of how technology or new media has an impact on… Read more

  • What I Want to Be

    I write about what I want to be. You might read some of my stuff and think that I speak out of experience – and for the most part, I… Read more

  • What You Don’t Know about Social Media

    ……..can really rile you up.  Just go to a presentation about Social Media and you’ll see what I mean. rile (rl) tr.v. riled, ril·ing, riles 1. To stir to anger. See Synonyms at annoy. 2. To stir… Read more

  • Imitate Others in Order to Develop Your Identity

    I talk to quite a few people who are in the process of figuring out their identity.  They want to work on it, but they don’t know how.  Figuring out… Read more

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I’m Lem Usita, Ed.D.

This site was my blog for many years that is now the site for the work that I do. Thanks for visiting.

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