identitySPECIALIST

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  • #Starbucks and their Crappy Service

    I was at a Starbucks today.  There was no one in line.  I sat there as a young lady kept cleaning as I stood there waiting to be served.  I… Read more

  • More Private

    Is it possible to be more private?  I mean if we are sharing all the stuff that we’re sharing already, are we going to run out of private things to… Read more

  • Ideas Can Define You

    When Inception – the movie – came out, one of my really good friends said that I needed to watch it.  He said that it was rich with identity ideas.… Read more

  • Reading People

    We all have the ability.  Some of us aren’t as good as others of you, but you all have the ability.  With practice you can get better at it.  I… Read more

  • Attracted to Mystery

    You are attracted to mystery.  It doesn’t matter who you are.  If something is mysterious – we are drawn to it like a moth to a flame.  Then once you… Read more

  • Talking to Yourself

    Do you talk to yourself?  Where did we learn that it was bad?  Some of you just thought to yourself “where did I learn that talking to myself was bad?”… Read more

  • Do You Need Help Figuring Out Your Identity?

    I’d love to help you if I can.  How can I claim to be an Identity Specialist if I cannot at help you figure out your identity?  I can at… Read more

  • Uncomfortable and Exciting

    I read a post yesterday about how the most exciting things happen when you’re in uncomfortable situations.  I guess if you’ve never experienced that, you’ll not agree with that statement.… Read more

  • Be Unique, but Belong 4

    It’s fun to listen to friends and family talk about their football team.  You name it.  Whether college or professional football, people need to be a part of something.  People… Read more

  • True Celebration

    ….will demonstrate true self.  If you really want to see someone’s true self, watch them celebrate.  It almost doesn’t matter if it’s a touchdown or getting a job.  What they… Read more

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I’m Lem Usita, Ed.D.

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