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  • Relationships Like a Geek

    I teach a course on Interpersonal relationships.  I wanted to make the point that relationships are fundamentally changing right before our eyes. I brought up Farmville and how people will… Read more

  • About Me

    Actually, the site is about.me.  You should check it out.  It’s in beta right now, but if you want to grab your url for your place card on about.me –… Read more

  • Ugly Models

    Have you heard about it?  Have you seen it?  Check out their website. It’s crazy that they’ve been around since 1969.  They focus on the extreme not on the mainstream. … Read more

  • What the Shows You Watch Say About You

    This is another one of those posts – where I don’t know the answer.  I would be interested though in knowing the answer so if you know the answer, please… Read more

  • The Dream Industry

    I don’t know how to title this, but what do you call it when someone sells you your dreams?  Someone is making tons of money of your dreams.  Whether it’s… Read more

  • Some Experience

    I don’t feel too old, but I spoke at a retreat/training this weekend. It was a retreat that I went on every year that I was in college. It was… Read more

  • Sharing in the Laughter

    On a recent flight I experienced the most wonderful thing.  It was early morning and I hadn’t finished my Starbucks coffee yet.  I wasn’t in the mood to talk to… Read more

  • Emotional Work

    I heard that phrase today.  A girl that I was listening to was talking about the guys that she dates and how she is more attracted to guys that have… Read more

  • Nonconscious Awareness

    We talked about this in a class today.  It’s easy to think of the conscious things in our lives – because it’s in conscious awareness for us.  We can easily… Read more

  • Print Media

    Are you still reading print media?  My wife has a subscription to a magazine so we still get it.  My father-in-law still gets the paper on the weekend.  For the… Read more

Welcome to my blog!

I’m Lem Usita, Ed.D.

This site was my blog for many years that is now the site for the work that I do. Thanks for visiting.

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