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  • Emotionally Frozen

    I read a lot.  I love reading and learning.  I have been doing a lot of writing lately – mostly dissertation and research writing. Today, I was reading something and… Read more

  • Internet Hot

    Someone did a search today for “Internet Hotness Conversion Factor.”  The reason that I know that is that they did a search for that phrase and found my blog post… Read more

  • Circumvent Identity Formation

    You can circumvent the identity formation process of someone else by not allowing them to freely explore and express their own identity.  When you superimpose your standards or tell someone… Read more

  • Everything Forms

    I can’t believe that I haven’t written about this yet.  A key to identity formation is that everything forms.  Everything has the potential to construct and shape your identity.  Every… Read more

  • Psychology of Like

    Psychology n., pl., -gies. The science that deals with mental processes and behavior. The emotional and behavioral characteristics of an individual, group, or activity: the psychology of war. Subtle tactical… Read more

  • LL34: Breaking My Own Rules

    Do you have leadership rules?  Rules that you follow in leadership?  I broke one of my big rules this past week.  The rule is – things should be handled in… Read more

  • Tweet Thought

    I was talking to my friend Scott yesterday (here is his blog), and I asked him a question about urbanism and social media.  I asked him for a response to… Read more

  • Do You Have a Dumb Phone? #dumbphone

    It’s the opposite of a smart phone-you know-one with hardly any features.  It basically makes calls and is simple.  It might just be a messaging phone, but it isn’t a… Read more

  • No Cell Phone Service

    Do you know the bliss that is –  “No Cell Phone Service.”  On a drive down the California coast last week, I had a few hours of No Cell Phone… Read more

  • You Can’t Try To Be Who You Are

    ….that was a line from an article that I read today.  It was an article about a band, and they were criticizing the band for sounding too much like —-… Read more

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I’m Lem Usita, Ed.D.

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