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Trapped in a Mindset

Posted on July 2, 2012 by Lem Usita

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I was talking to a friend today about what motivates identities.  Do we take on an identity to try it on?  Do we take on an identity for the image – like the look and feel of an identity?  Or … Continue reading →

Posted in Identity Tagged Identity, Identity formation, mindset, natural, normal, trap, trapped in a mindset

Being Known

Posted on May 28, 2012 by Lem Usita

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I am working through a book on neuroscience and relationships. Read about this concept of how we tend to think of our relationships in terms of how well we know people.  That’s pretty much how I think about my relationships. … Continue reading →

Posted in Identity Tagged being known, development, friendships, Knowing, knowing people, natural, Relationships

What You Become When You Retaliate

Posted on February 15, 2012 by Lem Usita

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re·tal·i·ate/riˈtalēˌāt/ Verb: Make an attack or assault in return for a similar attack. Repay (an injury or insult) in kind. When you think about identity, you end up thinking about what it is or who it is that you are … Continue reading →

Posted in Influence Tagged attack, become, becoming, ethic, hurt, Ideas, insult, love, mind space, natural, normal, retaliate, retaliation, vicious cycle, you

Natural Desire to Show Your Stuff Off

Posted on January 30, 2012 by Lem Usita

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I heard someone say this today – and I find it to be so true.  It was a marketing podcast that I was listening to, and they were talking about how they can use social media to market.  The suggestion … Continue reading →

Posted in Ideas Tagged discretion, Ideas, Marketing, natural, natural desire, show off, status updates

Identity Performance

Posted on April 3, 2011 by Lem Usita

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It’s an interesting concept.  I think in past posts, I would have referred to it as Identity Projection, but I really like the nuance of the word performance.  A performance is not natural.  Here are a few definitions: per·for·mance (pr-fôrmns) n.  … Continue reading →

Posted in Identity Tagged concept, Identity, identity projection, natural, performance, role

10,000 Dead

Posted on March 14, 2011 by Lem Usita

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That’s what they are saying the death toll is going to be 3 days after the earthquake and tsunami in Japan.  We cannot even fathom that can we.  As rescue workers have started to get to the areas that have … Continue reading →

Posted in Ideas Tagged 10000, dead, devastation, disaster, earthquake, japan, natural, tsunami

A Cluttered Mind

Posted on October 30, 2010 by Lem Usita

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I am rereading a book – for my research and was struck by the idea that a cluttered mind is actually the normal and natural state of our minds. When someone says that their mind is all over the place … Continue reading →

Posted in Ideas Tagged clutter, discipline, Focus, landscape of your mind, mind space, natural

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