Well, if you’ve been reading this blog for a bit – you know what I’m going to say (Right Kahu Dan!).

What you obsess about tells me so much about your identity.  If you think about something so much to the point that you obsess about it – that’s your identity.  It’s crazy that it all happens in your mind.  You don’t have to say anything to anyone.  In the quietness of your heart, your obsession takes over and then that thing that you obsess about defines you.

I was listening to some guys this afternoon talk about how when we obsess, we get in the way of our success.  When you obsess about approval or someone’s thoughts about it, you are shaped by your ideas of what you think someone else things about you.  It’s not even their thoughts that shape your identity – it’s yours.

What you obsess about shapes you.