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  • Foundational Identity

    There are some foundational things about your identity that just cannot change.  There are some things – scars, conditioning, desires, or preferences that are just a foundational part of your… Read more

  • The Ability to Create

    Anyway can create.  Everyone has the ability to create.  There is no excuse – no amount of lack of skill or ability can stop you from creating.  It takes –… Read more

  • Blind to What I Don’t Need

    I see fine.  Okay, I need some contact lenses to help me see fine, but I see fine. I have had a few lectures lately that have addressed blind spots… Read more

  • Suspend Judgment

    If you did a search on Google for this term, you would find a wikipedia page about it.  The page says that the opposite of suspension of judgment is prejudgment… Read more

  • The Loneliness Intensifies

    I heard that phrase tonight.  If there is something that scares an extrovert – I think it’s that.  Not only is the loneliness scary, but that fact that it can… Read more

  • Training to the Breaking Point

    You’re only as good as much as you train.  If you are able to train to the breaking point – where you’re actually broken – you might get to see… Read more

  • Identity Drive

    My best time for reflection and creating of identity happens when I drive.  I love driving.  It’s the best time for me to reflect on identity.  I’m always thinking about… Read more

  • Gathering Around a #Hashtag

    I heard someone talk about this idea.  He had started a hashtag – mainly as a snarky remark – and a million tweets later, he realized that he had tapped… Read more

  • Setting up Boundaries

    I was thinking through boundaries today.  I have read books on them.  I have heard people talk about them. Most of the time, I hear about it in the context… Read more

  • More Grace

    As a teacher and eternal student, I have been in a context where it’s all about more knowledge, more information, more research – just more data.  Well, I guess it’s… Read more

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I’m Lem Usita, Ed.D.

This site was my blog for many years that is now the site for the work that I do. Thanks for visiting.

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