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  • Teaching Without Talking

    I am a teacher.  Well, I am a teacher by trade, but it is also what I am – even if I didn’t do it as a profession.  I was… Read more

  • Family Crest

    I was thinking about a time gone by where your identity was so much easier.  I was thinking of the time when there was a Family Crest that you identified… Read more

  • Differentiated Self

    Differentiation of self refers to one’s ability to separate one’s own intellectual and emotional functioning from that of the family.  At least that’s what wikipedia says when describing Bowen’s theory of family systems. It has… Read more

  • Insights In To You

    I am a big fan of friends and even enemies that are able to give Insights In To Me – into who I am.  I am a fan of people… Read more

  • Talking About Yourself

    …….is always so difficult. Unless of course you’ve thought about who you are.  If you know yourself, it’s not that difficult to talk about yourself.  If you know how perfect… Read more

  • Uncle Lem

    I quite enjoy my Uncle Lem identity.  I wrote about my Unco Wem Identity once before, but there’s a dark side.  Let me start though by saying that I absolutely… Read more

  • The William Shatner Voice

    Have you ever heard anyone do the William Shatner voice – without even knowing it?  I guess it’s how people talk when they are trying to make a point.  They… Read more

  • The Wisdom of the Hairs on the Back of your Neck

    You know what I’m talking about.  They are some of the smartest parts of your whole body.  When you are walking down the street – and you happen to see… Read more

  • My Strengths Finders 2.0 Top 5

    I recently took the Strengths Finder assessment from strengths.gallup.com.  Since this blog has to do with identity, I figured I’d share a glimpse into my identity.  I am using it… Read more

  • You are You When You’re Hungry

    Have you seen that Snicker’s commercial – where the tagline is – You’re not You When You’re Hungry – they’re wrong.  You are the real you when you are hungry.… Read more

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I’m Lem Usita, Ed.D.

This site was my blog for many years that is now the site for the work that I do. Thanks for visiting.

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