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Hiding Behind a Blog
You know what they say about opinions right? I love the ability and the freedom that we have when we blog. We can express ideas that we might be working… Read more
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The Seduction of Free
se·duc·tion/siˈdəkSHən/Noun 1. The action of seducing someone. 2. A tempting or attractive thing. free/frē/ Verb: Make free, in particular. Adverb: Without cost or payment: Have you ever been to Costco… Read more
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P. Diddy and an Identity Insight
P. Diddy has changed his name – for the week anyway. He is now Swag. When first heard this, I thought – what a weak identity structure that he has… Read more
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Graduation and Grieving
I walk on Friday night. The dissertation is being bound (I found mistakes today). I need to pick up regalia. Family will be in town this week. We are planning… Read more
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Endearing Humility
endearing [ɪnˈdɪərɪŋ] adj giving rise to love or esteem; charming endearingly adv – humility [hjuːˈmɪlɪtɪ] n pl -ties the state or quality of being humble I heard this said of someone. There’s something about it… Read more
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You are Culturally Bound
We are all culturally bound. When thinking about identity – you cannot be something that you are not. That’s not to say that eventually you can’t become that, but I… Read more
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Healthy Conflict
There is a way to fight with someone that’s super healthy. Conflict is a natural thing in relationships and life, but the thing that can make it healthy is what’s… Read more
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Over Identify
It is possible to over identify with an identity. It is not a good or bad thing, but it happens. You can over identify with your favorite sports team. You… Read more
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Your Soul on a Blog
Today, I heard someone say that whenever you write a blog post, you put your soul on a blog. It’s not a new thing – souls interacting with each other.… Read more
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