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  • You Are What You Love

    According to Erik Erikson anyway.  Erikson, Erik.  Identity: Youth and crisis. 1968 p. 138 if you want to look it up. So the saying “You are what you eat” would be… Read more

  • Experience Junkie

    I heard this phrase this morning.  It is a description or an identity projection that gives insight into self – well, for the experience junkie anyway.  I think that it… Read more

  • The Price of Looking Cute

    ….evidently is to freeze.  Do you know what I am talking about?  Have you ever seen it?  Girls trying to look cute with their short shorts while everyone else has… Read more

  • Adolescing

    Just because you are no longer a teenager, it doesn’t mean that you can’t act like one.  No matter what developmental psychologist, most of them allow for you to revert… Read more

  • Your Ideas and Critics

    It doesn’t matter what great idea you have.  If it’s any good, it’ll have critics.  They just kinda go together.  So don’t fret.  If you have critics, you might have… Read more

  • If You Want to be More Sexy…

    …..you shouldn’t be looking for it in a blog post, but since you’re here, Daniel G. Amen M.D. says that in order to be more sexy you need to have… Read more

  • What Would You Do For a Girl?

    Did you see the story about the 3 boys that jumped into a 12 foot aluminium boat to travel 200 kilometers – in the south pacific – for a girl?… Read more

  • Negative Space

    The Japanese have a word for this space in between things or objects.  It is an experience of the space in between.  The word is Ma.  It is an awareness… Read more

  • Spammers are Smart

    Whenever I log on to the dashboard of my blog, I many times will have a spam comment. I’ll check it to make sure there are no false positives, and… Read more

  • The Seduction of Black Friday

    I don’t know about you, but my email inbox was inundated with seductive e mails.  Not the normal seductive emails – Gmail does a great job of preventing many of… Read more

Welcome to my blog!

I’m Lem Usita, Ed.D.

This site was my blog for many years that is now the site for the work that I do. Thanks for visiting.

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