Category: Identity

  • It’s Never too Late

    It’s Never too Late

    I’ve heard people say that at a certain point of one’s development that it’s too late – to change or grow. That limiting thought prevents them from making changes because they think it’s too late to change. I’m too old to learn. I’m too old to do something different and new. I’m too…

  • Imago Dei and Identity

    Imago Dei and Identity

    The Imago Dei. The Image of God. I have been thinking through these ideas for a little bit now. Just processing the implications of some of these ideas. I have read a few things about it – and I will continue to read more about it – which will ultimately…

  • Executive Director at the Firs

    Executive Director at the Firs

    I took on a new role last month. I have accepted the role of Executive Director at the Firs – a retreat and conference center in Bellingham, Washington. At the retreat center location there is also a preschool, after school program, day camp, as well as a summer camp on…

  • Space or Survival

    Space or Survival

    Sometimes I use this space to work out an idea – sometimes the ideas aren’t quite fully formed, but I’ll write them here and talk with folks about it. Here’s the latest idea – which of course isn’t a new idea – but it’s new to me. I was thinking…

  • The “Not Knowing” Spectrum

    The “Not Knowing” Spectrum

    Here’s an idea that I’m working out. We can sometimes get stuck in our functional dualism that it’s difficult to see things beyond it. It’s either we know something or we don’t know something, but it is a simple dichotomy that just doesn’t work because it doesn’t capture all of…

  • Anxiety or Award

    Anxiety or Award

    As I was looking at my ‘Awards’ on my Apple watch – I remember when all of these little reminders to stand was a point of anxiety for me – not award. I needed to get all the marks for standing every hour. When I would go on a drive…

  • Seeing Other…..

    Seeing Other…..

    …..is not something that can be easily done. We easily assume that seeing another is something that we can all do, but I don’t think you can necessarily see another until you have an established and mature sense of identity and self. I was working on a writing project –…

  • Unknowing Yourself

    Unknowing Yourself

    I had never thought about ‘unknowing yourself’ as part of the process of getting to know yourself – or even more important being more yourself. It is a concept that I heard from Lori Gottlieb. She says, “But part of getting to know yourself is to unknow yourself—to let go…

  • Your Mask as an Expression of Your Identity

    Your Mask as an Expression of Your Identity

    Even your masks express your identity. Have you seen them? I’ve seen them with LA Dodger’s logos – flowers – blank – homemade – designed – brand logos – that represent their sense of identity and self. It’s amazing how even something as new as masks is already a canvas…

  • The Inner Work of Identity

    The Inner Work of Identity

    …….is hard. Let me repeat that.  “The Inner Work of Identity is hard.” Inner – the stuff that’s happening inside of you; in your heart and head; thoughts and emotions Work – effort to achieve something or fulfill some purpose Identity – who or what you are   Sometimes I…

  • A New Way of Being

    A New Way of Being

    It’s such a simple idea – but not easy to figure out or know what will happen. And honestly, we don’t think about how it changes us or our new way of being until it gets out of control. The Psychology always follows the Technology. We make the thing –…

  • Identity Film

    Identity Film

    I recently watched a film on Identity. It was called “Identity: The Andrew Nemr Story,” and of course a movie called “Identity” is something that I’m going to watch. If you want to see a trailer for it – You can do so here.  Identity: The Andrew Nemr Story. First…