Category: Identity
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The YouTube Trap
Have you ever fell for that YouTube trap of watching more videos than you should? Come on. You know what I’m talking about. Last night I fell for that trap. I was looking for a song, and listened to the original. Then I wanted to hear a live version of…
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Practice Your Identity
I went on a walk today with my dogs at our normal park that we go for walks at. There’s a huge field there and there are always games and practice at the fields. After tonight’s walk, I was hit with the idea that these kids – soccer today –…
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Commercials About You
I hardly ever watch commercials. My DVR makes that possible, but we happened to be watching Man Vs. Food – live tonight so we had to endure the commercials. Two commercials stood out because it happened one right after the other. The first was Holiday Inn where the tag line…
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Relationships Like a Geek
I teach a course on Interpersonal relationships. I wanted to make the point that relationships are fundamentally changing right before our eyes. I brought up Farmville and how people will spend time feeding their virtual cows, and then one of the students brought up the fact that you can download…
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What the Shows You Watch Say About You
This is another one of those posts – where I don’t know the answer. I would be interested though in knowing the answer so if you know the answer, please help me understand. I have not done the study, but I would assume that the shows that we watch reveal…
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Nonconscious Awareness
We talked about this in a class today. It’s easy to think of the conscious things in our lives – because it’s in conscious awareness for us. We can easily explain it to someone else because we are conscious of it. But there’s a whole other side of our consciousness…
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Lem Usita ’95 and Lem Usita ’99
Those are 2 identity markers for me. It stood out to me when I wrote it in an e mail this morning. I guess technically I could add Lem Usita ’91, and I hope to add Lem Usita ’10 as another identity marker. I don’t know why it fascinates me…
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Your Mom and Identity Formation
I was preparing for class today. It was on self-control and self-regulatory principles for interpersonal relationships (I’m sorry for any of my students that will be in class tomorrow – you’re going to hear this again). Self-control is necessary to maintain interpersonal relationships. Children – as young as 3 months…

