Tag: people
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Where to Find Your Identity
I know that I’ve written something like this before, but this conversation keeps coming up. Just because I study and I’m very interested in identity doesn’t necessarily mean I know how you might be able to find identity. Everyone is different. There is never one way to find identity and…
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Presence
pres·enceNoun/ˈprezəns/ 1. The state or fact of existing, occurring, or being present in a place or thing. 2. A person or thing that exists or is present in a place but is not seen: “the monks became aware of a strange presence“. I had a great conversation with some friends yesterday…
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Your Greatness
….all depends on the challenges that you’ve experienced in your life. You cannot know how great you can be unless you work through some challenges. We all experience challenges. Those that work through it can know how great they are. Talk to great people. They’ll point to the challenges that…
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The Thing that I Love About My Blog
…..is what I learn about you who read it. Whenever I check the sites stats, it shows the search terms that people used to find my blog, and it also shows the sites that they might have come from. Here are some of my observations. 1. People are struggling with…
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“Why Not” People
Have you ever had an idea – something that you were passionate about – and had the people around you just simply asked you “why?” These are the killjoys in your life – always shooting down your idea. And then there are those friends in your life that lovingly and…
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LL44: Because Rocks Don’t Talk Back
I had an interesting interchange with a prospective student yesterday. We ran an event on campus for our Leadership Program – which I currently direct. As part of the visit day, our prospective students had to complete certain initiatives, and my leadership students would make observations about each student. The…
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Creating Culture
……..is never about one person. Don’t get me wrong, I think one person can start it. One person can be the impetus for creating culture, but it takes more than one person to create it. It’s about a bunch of people being about one thing. It’s great when it comes…
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Simulated Connection
That’s the kind of connection that happens online. It’s a reaching out to someone that we all need – but for whatever reason – we get online. It’s not like you come over to my house – although you’re definitely welcomed to. We are connected through the screen – through…
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Articulate Awareness
I heard someone say this today. Awareness is easy, but to be able to articulate awareness – that’s not as easy. I loved hearing the saying. It helped me to understand that it doesn’t matter how aware I am of a problem, if I am not able to adequately articulate…
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People Are Not Rational
Does that make sense? No, it doesn’t make sense, and it doesn’t have to. People are not rational. I don’t care how much schooling one has, they’ll still do dumb, irrational things. Why? Because people aren’t rational. For years, you’re trained to think logically, correctly, and dare I say, rationally.…
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The Evolution of Connection
I heard a talk yesterday (I don’t have my notes from yesterday so I can’t tell you who) , and the speaker gave the evolution of connection. It went something like this – people connect to people and now people can connect to machines (cars, headsets, phones, technology). His talk…
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Home and Identity
I have written similar ideas before, but I am always amazed at how much I learn about myself when I go home. Home – my parent’s home. It doesn’t hurt that home is Hawaii. It’s beautiful here. Normally, the surroundings and the scenery – and the food – is what…