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  • The World You Create

    Have you ever wondered how CS Lewis came up with the Lnad of Narnia or how Tolkien came up with Mordor?  How did they come up with these worlds? I… Read more

  • Sometimes I’m a Jerk

    You can file this story under “sometimes I’m a jerk.”  This happened last week, and I just happened to think of it right before I got to the cafe to… Read more

  • Do You Know How to Wonder?

    Arouse Astonishment Marvel Surprise Admiration To be filled with curiosity or doubt Awe inspiring Inexplicable Miracle Superior Exciting Strange Inquiry Wonder – it’s such a beautiful integration of thinking and… Read more

  • The Dating Site for the Ugly

    I couldn’t believe it.  There is a dating site for those that don’t think that they’re pretty enough for the normal dating websites such as Match.com or OkCupid.com.  The site… Read more

  • BJ and the Bear

    So I told DC about the show BJ and the Bear tonight – she had no clue what I was talking about.  The show premiered February of 1979.  I watched… Read more

  • Tweets = Your State of Being

    I just listened to a talk by @jayadelson – Sirchio Lecture – and he made a comment about how a tweet represents your state of being.  You can tweet 24… Read more

  • Identity and Halloween

    Identity and Halloween just goes together.  It’s the one time in the year when we let our inner identities come out – and it’s in disguise. I am about to… Read more

  • A Cluttered Mind

    I am rereading a book – for my research and was struck by the idea that a cluttered mind is actually the normal and natural state of our minds. When… Read more

  • Identity Optimization

    I was flipping through the channels  this morning – I watched this show that had to do with pimping your online profile – to get more dates.  Anything online and… Read more

  • Dear Mr. Lack of Spatial Awareness,

    I know that you’re anxious to get your cup of coffee, but not matter how close you stand behind me, its not going to get you any coffee sooner than… Read more

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I’m Lem Usita, Ed.D.

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