Category: Identity

  • Your Sidekick and Identity

    Your Sidekick and Identity

    If you had a sidekick, what would that tell me about your identity?  Would your sidekick be funny?  Would you sidekick be prettier?  Would you sidekick actually stand by your side?  Would your sidekick make you better or cover up your – what’s not better?  Would your sidekick need a…

  • Taking on a New identity

    Taking on a New identity

    It’s always an interesting when you take on a new identity. Do you ever have opportunities to take on new identites? Do you remember the last time you took on a new identity? New identities are always confusing at first. It doesn’t matter how much planning there is before you…

  • My Foodie Identity

    My Foodie Identity

    I looked up definitions of Foodie – on Urban Dictionary. The definitions had to do with loving food and knowing ingredients.  It had to do with people that enjoy food.  I think that a foodie is someone that is all of these things, but then also blogs about it.  In…

  • My Writer Identity

    My Writer Identity

    I would never consider myself a writer.  I blog.  I’ve written a dissertation.  I have a few published articles, but I’m not a writer…..well, at least not yet. This past week, I received several requests for writing projects.  They were all different requests for different articles completely independent of each…

  • Factory Made Identity

    Factory Made Identity

    Before there was such a thing as “the factory,” everything was handmade.  Before a mechanized process of making stuff, everything was unique.  No one had the same coat of many colors.  Even if you wanted to make an exact copy, it wouldn’t be exactly the same.  The factory made all…

  • A Tighter Identity

    A Tighter Identity

    I am working out some concepts about identity, and what better place to do that than on my blog. We all have our true identity – the truest version of your Self.  We also all have roles and identities that we project.  Depending on the setting and the medium, you…

  • Validate My Feelings

    Validate My Feelings

    I am currently reading Sherry Turkle’s Alone Together.  Here ideas have been swirling in my head – especially since I based alot of my thinking off of her last book. One of the concepts that she explores is the idea that our feelings aren’t validated until it is acknowledge either…

  • Identity Performance

    Identity Performance

    It’s an interesting concept.  I think in past posts, I would have referred to it as Identity Projection, but I really like the nuance of the word performance.  A performance is not natural.  Here are a few definitions: per·for·mance (pr-fôrmns) n.  1. The act of performing or the state of being…

  • Love Comes Later

    Love Comes Later

    Only in a culture that values individualism is romantic love the reason to get married. That was a line from one of my lectures this week on culture.  In many cultures marriage decisions are too important to be left to individuals.  The family is a part of the decision, and…

  • Our Cravings Define Us

    Our Cravings Define Us

    Think about that.  What do you crave?  Sushi?  Snails?  Spam and Egg Burrito? I saw a tweet this week about a spam and egg burrito.  I’ve never had a spam and egg burrito.  It sounded so good.  I craved it for a day and then gave in.  I needed to…

  • Are You Insecure?

    Are You Insecure?

    Actually, in some sense, we all are insecure.  There isn’t anyone that doesn’t deal with this.  Some just hide it better than others, but if you want to be more secure in who you – Get to Know Yourself. I know that it’s not super easy.  “Getting to know yourself”…

  • Inject Identity

    Inject Identity

    Whenever you write a blog post, post a status update on Facebook, or tweet it is usually infused with identity.  You don’t have to inject identity or personality or persona in anything that you produce, write, or record.  It’s all identity-laden. That doesn’t mean that you can’t inject identity into…