Tag: Identity
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Do You Know How to Wonder?
Arouse Astonishment Marvel Surprise Admiration To be filled with curiosity or doubt Awe inspiring Inexplicable Miracle Superior Exciting Strange Inquiry Wonder – it’s such a beautiful integration of thinking and feeling – knowing and not knowing. This picture was taken by my good friend Drason Anderson – You should…
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The Dating Site for the Ugly
I couldn’t believe it. There is a dating site for those that don’t think that they’re pretty enough for the normal dating websites such as Match.com or OkCupid.com. The site is The Ugly Bug Ball – a dating website fo the aesthetically challenged. Check out The Ugly Bug Ball. If…
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Identity Optimization
I was flipping through the channels this morning – I watched this show that had to do with pimping your online profile – to get more dates. Anything online and identity related, I’m interested in. There is a service that will pimp your profile or optimize your online profile so…
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Cyber Bullying and Projected Identities
There has been quite a bit of media directed toward the recent cyber bullying incidences. People have committed suicide because of it. It’s definitely a problem. I was watching a segment on the news – and their suggestion was to teach our children to not cyber bully. An insight from…
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When You “Like” Something on Facebook
it says something about you, but it’s much more about telling other people something. In many ways, it’s an identity projection. It is you saying that you want this to represent a part of you. It says that you identify with this. In another ways, it is you identifying with…
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Identity and the Depths
We all have projected identities that allow us to function in life. We play multiple roles. It’s the ones that people interact with. No matter what the role, each projected identity is connected to the depths of our being. And for most of us, the depths of who we are…
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Even a Break Has an Identity
So I was checking out a few beaches today. We were trying to figure out which beach had the best waves. I went to a break today that most people would refer to as Pipes. The state beach has an offficial name, but as I was watching the surfers ride…
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My Dr Identity
I am not yet Dr. Lem Usita. I’m working on it. In fact, I worked on it all day. I’ve worked on it for years. I have never been motivated by one day being called Dr. In fact, when I get it, I will not make anyone call me that.…
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The Identity Off Button
…….doesn’t exist. It is not possible to turn off identity formation. It’s always happening. Everything forms, and you are always forming. Technically, even when you are sleeping and your subconscious continues to process and churn, you are subconsciously forming ideas and ultimately identity. You don’t stop forming.
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My Multiple Identities
Did you know that it was normal to have multiple identities? You have multiple identities. We all do. We all play out different roles. As long as all of these identity expressions are integrated into one true self. It’s when these multiple identities can’t come back to center that there…
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Pretending to be Someone Else
It’s not that hard to pretend to be someone else. We’ve all done it. You know you’ve tried to do a Michael Jordan move and stuck your tongue out and everything. Okay, so maybe not Jordan, but someone else. Theoretically, it’s a normal thing. Identity experiments typically happen during adolescents. …
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Identity Design
If you do a search for this on Google, you will find links that point to brand identity. This is not the identity design that I’m talking about. I am talking about psychological identity. Sociologists talk about the process of individuation – or what I’m going to call Identity Design.…
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