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  • People that Give You Energy

    I heard this line today.  I’ve also been reading about it – this connectedness that is possible with people – even on a sub-conscious level.  Very interesting. I like the… Read more

  • Just Because You Are Told Once or Twice

    …..doesn’t mean that you’ll get it. Sometimes you have to be told three or four or many times.  Some of us just don’t have the brain development to get it… Read more

  • Painful Memories

    Memories are a wonderful thing. Sometimes though memories can be so bad that we don’t pay any attention to them.  I’ve been reading about memories.  I have a few posts… Read more

  • 26.9%

    So about a month ago, I wrote a post that I called 28.1%.  That was my BMI – body mass index.  According to the chart that I looked at, it… Read more

  • Mental Model

    So I read about Mental Models today.  Basically, a mental model is formed early in life and then they stick with us for the rest of our lives.  When things… Read more

  • A Subjective Job

    I heard someone talk about this today.  I don’t know that they would call it this, but I thought it was a great identity insight in light of the job… Read more

  • Forgetting Where You’re From

    It is easy for me to forget where I come from.  It’s easy for me to get so caught up with the things going on in life that I miss… Read more

  • Camp Speaker

    I used this identity this week.  There were a few churches that got together and put on a camp.  It’s the same camp that I went to when I was… Read more

  • Exploring can Look like Disobedience

    I have written about Exploring and how that is part of the identity formation process. Do a search for Exploring on the blog and you’ll find some posts. Exploring possible… Read more

  • The Range of Comfortable

    Take any aspect of your life.  There is a range that you are comfortable with – no matter what aspect you think about. For instance – when it comes to… Read more

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I’m Lem Usita, Ed.D.

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