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  • Becoming What You Hate

    Before you start shooting down this idea with specific details, hear me out. I heard someone say this – that we all become what we hate. I am sure there… Read more

  • The Olympics is an Identity Event

    It’s a huge one, and it displays identity on several different levels. On the one level, we’re watching athletes.  They have taken on an identity.  They are a swimmer.  They… Read more

  • Your Identity Story

    Stories help us to interpret meaning in whatever it is that we’re doing.  We are all writing a story.  We are all living out our identity story.  This identity story… Read more

  • In Order to be Humble

    ……..you kinda have to be great first – or at least think that you’re great. Humility means that you are amazing.  If you aren’t that amazing, there wouldn’t be a… Read more

  • Recognize an Identity

    Only those that have the identity, or used to have the identity, or maybe have been around the identity enough – can recognize an identity.  If you haven’t been around… Read more

  • Energy to Maintain a Projected Identity

    I had a conversation with a friend yesterday.  He was talking about the difference between a true identity and a lived out identity.  He mentioned that we live out a… Read more

  • identitySHOW

    a post about a podcast called the identitySHOW – a space to talk about identity and what you think you know about it. Read more

  • Perennial Teenager

    I heard this description of someone today.  The perennial teenager, sometimes called the man-child.  It’s a definite identity that someone can take on these days.  I have my guess as… Read more

  • Permission to Take on an Identity

    Who gives you permission to take on an identity? You do.  Just take it.  Just create it.  You don’t have to wait.  You don’t have to ask permission. Now you… Read more

  • The Group Identity vs. Your Identity

    A quick post about Jim Carrey and the lessons that we can glean about our individual identity. Read more

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I’m Lem Usita, Ed.D.

This site was my blog for many years that is now the site for the work that I do. Thanks for visiting.

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