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  • Who You Root For

    I am sure I have written about something like this before. I don’t remember if it was a blog post or a course that I taught, but Who Your Root… Read more

  • Learning New Things

    One of the best things to help you develop your identity is to have the ability to Learn New Things. You know the saying that you can’t teach an old… Read more

  • The Thin Line Between Hostility and Peace

    I heard a talk tonight by my intern, and he shared a definition of some word that he was talking about.  This is my first thought that I thought of… Read more

  • Break the Pattern

    I think you have to be at least 30 to understand this post, but a sign of progress and change is having the ability to Break the Pattern. Take a… Read more

  • I Am Definitely Not a PC

    I got a new laptop last week from work.  I am so very thankful for a laptop that I can use to do my work.  It allows me to get… Read more

  • The Currency of the Boring

    a post about how you have to endure boring stuff in order to get to the good stuff. movies, edward norton jr, and the hulk. Read more

  • Give Them Tools

    a post that talks about the difference between saving someone and just giving the tools. Read more

  • Identity Leakage

    I’ve read about personality leakage before.  All that means is that you are able to see someone’s  personality as you watch their behavior and their actions. I’ve never read about… Read more

  • Hollywood and Truth

    I know you read the title, and you probably think that there is no way that you can find truth in Hollywood.  Hollywood is full of actors or fake identities.… Read more

  • What You Obsess About

    Well, if you’ve been reading this blog for a bit – you know what I’m going to say (Right Kahu Dan!). What you obsess about tells me so much about… Read more

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I’m Lem Usita, Ed.D.

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