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  • Do You Want to Express Your Identity

    Corporations will sell you the things that you can use to express your identity.  All you have to do is buy their stuff. The thing is, they are the same… Read more

  • The Culture of Want

    We have only been living in a Culture of Want for about a hundred years.  Only until we mechanized the production of thing did we start to market to people’s… Read more

  • Identity and Emotions

    The work of identity formation – creating and shaping identity can be so emotional.  When you are working on who you are – it’s hard emotional work. We tend to… Read more

  • Projecting on an Identity

    An identity projection – good thing. A projection on an identity – not a good thing. Read more

  • What Calms You?

    What Calms You? Do you even need to be calm? Some of us live such fast-paced lives that we don’t even know that we need to be calm. That place… Read more

  • Twitter Validation

    Evidently, there is this Twitter service that you can use that will validate whether a person is following you or some bot is following you.  The bot can’t navigate the… Read more

  • Second is the Best

    First is the worst.  You know how it goes right? It’s one of those things that I think can shape how we feel about ourselves.  Do you remember saying that… Read more

  • Do What Other People Don’t

    ……see what other people won’t. Read more

  • The Best Place to Watch Identity

    Maybe it’s because I’ve been traveling so much lately.  Maybe it’s because I tend to see identity everywhere.  Maybe it’s because I have been to a few places where people… Read more

  • Power Your Identity

    So we’re at the airport – delayed for 6 hours. It’s fine though. If you ever want to see someone’s real identity, watch them after they are told that their… Read more

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I’m Lem Usita, Ed.D.

This site was my blog for many years that is now the site for the work that I do. Thanks for visiting.

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