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  • A Grade School Understanding

    I just heard that line in a documentary that I was watching.  It struck me.  We can have a “grade school” understanding of many things, and that’s not a bad… Read more

  • Planned Spontaneity

    Have you ever heard anyone break down spontaneity?  I was a little surprised when I heard someone break it down today.  They identified it’s parts and articulated how spontaneity works,… Read more

  • Humanize to Understand

    I was listening to an interview this am of a guy that infiltrated or maybe immersed himself in a culture that he wanted to learn about.  It was something that… Read more

  • Amputate a Part of Yourself

    I read that line in an article this morning.  I can’t even describe to you what went on in my mental space, but I thought that it was interesting imagery.… Read more

  • How to be Exceptional

    First question: why do you want to be exceptional? To be exceptional you have to be first of all be different somehow from everyone else.   Here are the definitions… Read more

  • Moral Consistency

    I am sure that could mean many different things.  I was confronted by this idea twice in the past 2 days, and both times it had to do with the… Read more

  • Finding Your Voice

    I was listening to Mitch Joel’s podcast, and he made a comment about finding your voice.  It’s a line that you hear bloggers say.  People blog to “find their voice,”… Read more

  • Furry Fandom

    Have you guys seen the show My Strange Addiction?  The first time I heard about it, I immediately thought that this show was going to be rich with projected identities… Read more

  • Mistakes and Misspellings = Authenticity

    I was recently listening to a presentation.  It had to do with marketing and grammar of all things, but what they were saying is that mistakes and misspellings demonstrates authenticity.… Read more

  • Search Box Confessional.

    What would it be like if I was able to get a list of everything that you have ever typed into a search box?  What would I learn about you?… Read more

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I’m Lem Usita, Ed.D.

This site was my blog for many years that is now the site for the work that I do. Thanks for visiting.

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