Category: Identity

  • How Good Looking You Are

    How Good Looking You Are

    Did you know that you have no idea how good looking you are?  Quite literally, none of you think that you’re as good looking as you really are.   Wait a minute – I take that back.  Some of you think that you’re better looking that you really are.  But…

  • Your Facebook Self

    Your Facebook Self

    I just read an article that basically says that Facebook blurs the line between our real self and our digital self.  There is no blur.  Your real self is you and your digital self is also you.  The caveat might be that your digital self is not completely you, but…

  • If You’re Frustrated with Facebook…

    If You’re Frustrated with Facebook…

    …you should get off of Facebook.  If you’re going to complain – complain, but then do something about it.  Get off Facebook.  Don’t start groups using the medium that you’re going to complain about.  Although it does crack me up when I see people create a Facebook page complaining about…

  • Music as an Identity Badge

    Music as an Identity Badge

    I have received a few requests/demands maybe to write posts on certain topics.  It’s a great exercise for me to think about writing something that didn’t originally spawn from my reading or thoughts.  One recent request had to do with some thoughts about identity and music and there’s actually alot…

  • Amputate a Part of Yourself

    Amputate a Part of Yourself

    I read that line in an article this morning.  I can’t even describe to you what went on in my mental space, but I thought that it was interesting imagery.  It wasn’t an article about identity, but it very much was identity-laden.  If you want to know what the article…

  • Finding Your Voice

    Finding Your Voice

    I was listening to Mitch Joel’s podcast, and he made a comment about finding your voice.  It’s a line that you hear bloggers say.  People blog to “find their voice,” and it’s suppose to be this process of figuring out what to say in your blog. Mitch Joel said that…

  • Furry Fandom

    Furry Fandom

    Have you guys seen the show My Strange Addiction?  The first time I heard about it, I immediately thought that this show was going to be rich with projected identities and identity insights. One of the shows highlighted Furry Fandom.  It’s when someone comes alive when they hide behind a…

  • Search Box Confessional.

    Search Box Confessional.

    What would it be like if I was able to get a list of everything that you have ever typed into a search box?  What would I learn about you?  What would it say?  What would be mis understood or mis represented – because of the “research” that you were…

  • Where You Come From

    Where You Come From

    ……can tell you so much about who you are.  I can’t believe how much I continue to learn about who I am and who my family is.  At dinner tonight, my dad shared some of the hardships that my family had to experience, but also of the resilience that shown…

  • Love

    Love

    I have been thinking about it, but I am having such a hard time find words to describe my thoughts about it.  I am not talking about some romantic or marriage kind of love – although it fits.  I’m thinking about about how it makes us do all kinds of…

  • A City Identity

    A City Identity

    The city that you live in will shape your identity.  Live somewhere long enough and you start talking like them – dressing like them – eating like them – driving like them – and maybe if you stay long enough you might become one of them. I listened to 2…

  • Words Shape Identity

    Words Shape Identity

    I put that as status update on Facebook yesterday.  I heard it off of a tv program that I was watching.  Even though the show wasn’t about identity, that was what they were trying to say. The conversation from that status update was quite good.  Our identity is affirmed with…