Tag: identity projection

  • Seeing Other…..

    Seeing Other…..

    …..is not something that can be easily done. We easily assume that seeing another is something that we can all do, but I don’t think you can necessarily see another until you have an established and mature sense of identity and self. I was working on a writing project –…

  • The Inner Work of Identity

    The Inner Work of Identity

    …….is hard. Let me repeat that.  “The Inner Work of Identity is hard.” Inner – the stuff that’s happening inside of you; in your heart and head; thoughts and emotions Work – effort to achieve something or fulfill some purpose Identity – who or what you are   Sometimes I…

  • The Way Family Podcast

    The Way Family Podcast

    I had the opportunity to be a guest on the Way Family Podcast.  It comes out June 20, 2016 and you can find it here.  We talked about #identityformation and the impact that #socialmedia can have on identity.  We also briefly talked about extended adolescence and the way that #millenials…

  • Identity and Emotions

    Identity and Emotions

    The work of identity formation – creating and shaping identity can be so emotional.  When you are working on who you are – it’s hard emotional work. We tend to wrap our identities around something – our work, our kids, our looks, our car – something.  Whenever you put your…

  • Projecting on an Identity

    Projecting on an Identity

    An identity projection – good thing. A projection on an identity – not a good thing.

  • What You Think

    What You Think

    I heard a speaker this week say that there is a difference between “how we speak and how we think we speak.”  It’s such a novel insight, but how we are and how we think we are can be different, and I think it’s a function of a projected identity.…

  • Lady Gaga and an Identity Insight

    Lady Gaga and an Identity Insight

    Lady Gaga said that “I still sometimes feel like a loser kid in high school,” a tearful Gaga says in behind-the-scenes footage filmed for her upcoming HBO special. Here’s the NY Post article. She was definitely overwhelmed and it was right before she was going to play one of the…

  • A Tighter Identity

    A Tighter Identity

    I am working out some concepts about identity, and what better place to do that than on my blog. We all have our true identity – the truest version of your Self.  We also all have roles and identities that we project.  Depending on the setting and the medium, you…

  • Identity Performance

    Identity Performance

    It’s an interesting concept.  I think in past posts, I would have referred to it as Identity Projection, but I really like the nuance of the word performance.  A performance is not natural.  Here are a few definitions: per·for·mance (pr-fôrmns) n.  1. The act of performing or the state of being…

  • How I Read a Facebook Profile

    How I Read a Facebook Profile

    Have you ever thought about how you read a Facebook profile.  I’ve never thought about it, but I am going to try and describe what I do when I read one. I think the first thing that I look for are the Identity cues in the profile. Of course there…

  • Identity Caricature

    Identity Caricature

    Caricature: a. A representation, especially pictorial or literary, in which the subject’s distinctive features or peculiarities are deliberately exaggerated to produce a comic or grotesque effect. b. The art of creating such representations. 2. A grotesque imitation or misrepresentation Typically, when you see a caricature, there are some features that…

  • Lists

    Lists

    I am not much of a list guy.  I like writing stuff down, but I like mind maps more than I like lists. Today, I saw a book about lists.  It was your life in lists.  Each page had a heading at the top and you had to list whatever…